Just found out recently that I'm pregnant.
Editor's CommentYour initial reaction sounds like your heart response to the pregnancy, while the present feelings are the pressure of your circumstances causing you to doubt about your ability to cope. What you need to work out is what is most important to you, and how permanent or long term you feel your circumstances are.
Undoubtedly, your relationship will be affected by this experience, and again you should think through together how you feel about ending a pregnancy that was conceived in a loving relationship, and how you would both feel if that is what you decide to do. It may help to talk this through with someone independent before you make your final decision. for unplanned pregnancy support.