Everything looked good but the head wasn't round like it should be by Angel

I was excited to go to my 1st appt for my 3rd pregnancy. I had my sonogram and sat in the waiting room to see my Dr. She said everything looks good but the head was not round like it should be.

I did my research and exhausted myself with possibilities. My Dr had set me up with a high-risk Dr a week later.

My husband and I are in the waiting room watching them do a sonogram when the Dr comes in and says I'm sorry but your baby has Acrania. She said the next step was termination.

It took me a while to come to terms with an abortion. I didn't want to, I loved my unborn baby. I just didn't want either of us to suffer.

The abortion was painful and I cried a lot during it. I'm sad right now because I miss my baby like if I left her at a relatives house but this one I can't pick up.

Angel sent this story in on 06/08/2015

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