Hi, I found out two days ago.

Hi, I found out two days ago. I want to keep it but my chap doesn’t. What do I do? Thanks for writing in…It’s very important that you take time to think through the facts about all your options without pressure from any one else, even your partner. You also need time to think through how you feel about the options, taking into account what your head is saying and what your heart is saying too. Many women feel they have to choose between their baby and their partner when the partner isn’t supportive and that can be a heavy burden to carry alone. Contact your nearest centre for some support as soon as you can.
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