I had a surgical abortion when I was 15 weeks pregnant.
Editor's CommentIt is sad that you were not able to get more support and medical help for your depression. It is very crippling for women who get antenatal depression and you need professional intervention to be able to see a pregnancy through.
It is not unusual for a relationship to breakdown as a result of an abortion decision, especially when one of you is in disagreement with the choice. I would advise you to talk to your GP about this experience so that you can plan the help and support you may need if you wanted to try for another pregnancy. There are some helpful websites that can support you through depression in pregnancy where you can talk to other people having similar problems, netsmum or call the helpline for support 0300 4000 999.