I slept with a 15 year old girl.

I just have one question. I am a boy and I am 17 years old. I slept with a 15 year old girl and after a couple of weeks which is about 3 weeks I found out that she was pregnant. I felt so ashamed and it was a disgrace to my friends too. I advised the girl to abort but I was feeling sad for her because she was too young and had a long way to go. My question is, what kind of pain does she go through while aborting, and is death a part of abortion? Can she die while doing this?

Editor's Comment

It is difficult to give a short answer here. The pain she may experience will depend on the type of abortion she has. If she has the medical procedure she will have cramp type pains that vary a lot from person to person. If she has a surgical procedure again it depends if she has an anaesthetic, sedation, or local anaesthetic. There are some risks with any procedure but very rare for a woman to die as a result of abortion. Check out the website for more information or follow the link NHS website.

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