I couldn't decide if I wanted to keep my baby or not, but I ended up having a termination
Editor’s note: Thanks for sharing how you are feeling with us…Indecision about what to do about an unplanned pregnancy usually means there are hidden feelings underneath that need to be heard and taken into consideration. It sounds as if you, along with many women, felt the pressure of circumstances and yet felt there was something positive about being pregnant. In other words, your head was telling you one thing, but your heart, at a deeper level, was telling you something else. What’s important now is that you take care of yourself. It’s not uncommon for women to feel the way you do – the sense of loss, grief, regret – but this does not have to stay as it is. I suggest you make contact with your nearest centre for post-abortion support, or use Online Advisor if there is no centre nearby. There is hope. We’ll be thinking of you.