To anyone who is thinking of having an abortion, I would say don’t!!!
Editor’s note: Thanks for sharing your story with us…It’s sad that some men enjoy the benefits of a sexual relationship but then cannot face the responsibility of fatherhood that that behaviour can bring about. You are very courageous to pursue the pregnancy under these circumstances, but you are energised by the fact that you experienced such acute emotional pain following your abortion. I hope you are receiving all the support you need from family and friends. If not, then you can contact your nearest centre for support – this may help you when things are tough or you feel lonely. We’ll be thinking of you.