Who is the father?By anonymous on 15/12/2010
I don't know who the dad isI am 22 years old with 2 children already and the same partner of 7 years, I am 11 weeks pregnant with my 3rd child and do not know who the dad is as I had a 1 night stand, problem is I had intercourse with my partner on the same day too ! It will be obvious at the birth as the other person is black !
I do not want an abortion just incase all the signs are pointing to it being my partners baby, help.
Editor's CommentIt's very stressful to be pregnant under such circumstances, especially as it sounds like you would be happy to have your partner's baby. I imagine this makes it difficult for you to consider having an abortion.
There is no certain way of knowing which man is the father, apart from having a DNA test. This is unlikely to be offered during the pregnancy because of the risk to the baby. However, please seek medical advice from your midwife or GP.
Either way, it is very important for you to get pregnancy crisis support as you work through these issues. Please follow the link to find a centre for crisis pregnancy support in your area. or phone the Careconfidential helpline 0300 4000 999 for pregnancy crisis support.