16 weeks pregnant. Who's the father?

I am 29 and single.
I have a ten year old boy, and have had five miscarriages. After 6 year together me and my partner split and I started seeing a guy within weeks of splitting.
I have found out I am pregnant and at 16 weeks don't know who the father is. Either my ex of 6 year or my new ex of 4mth. I can't go through with having an abortion reading horror stories ripping and sucking babies to bits, but I do want to keep it. Please please help.

Editor's Comment

It is a difficult situation to be in when one relationship has just ended and the other newly started. Having had 5 miscarriages, it would be a shame if you are not able to enjoy the pregnancy. Please contact CareConfidential and we will be able to talk this through with you and perhaps get an idea of who the likely father is. You can call the national helpline 0300 4000 999, log on to Online advisor, or follow the link to find a centre for pregnancy support in your area.

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