I am 16 yrs old, and last month my boyfriend had sex with me

I am 16 yrs old, and last month my boyfriend had sex with me (unprotected) though he didn't ejaculate inside but still I am very scared about it and I want to keep it confidential. I have no plans of pregnancy right now and I surely don't want to tell my parents about it. Please advise me.

Editor's Comment

It is never safe to have sex without contraception even if your boyfriend pulls out before the final ejaculation. This is because semen can leak out during the process and before the final event.
If your period is late, you should do a pregnancy test to check whether you are pregnant or not. A test is usually accurate 2-3 days after a missed period. If you are pregnant then CareConfidential, NHS choices, or a young person's clinic can help you with information looking at your options.Follow the link for support around unprotected sex.
This story was sent in on 05/01/2015

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