Help after an abortionBy anonymous on 04/09/2012
2 years ago my partner and I hastily decided on having a termination due to finances etc.. I went for 2 years thinking that the feelings after the termination and our relationship were coming to breaking point. I knew I needed help so I looked online for help and kept getting directed to care confidential. I read up my options and found that you can attend meetings in a centre or use the online advisor service. I found that there was a centre in my area... It took me 2 months to find the courage to go to the centre.. I took the bus telling myself I was just popping into town, I also never told anyone I was going... The fact you have recognised you need help is a huge achievement in itself. As soon as I met my advisor I was extremely nervous... she calmed me down asked why I was there and asked me to come back to start the programme.. I was soo keen to get through the grief of the abortion to move on with my life..