I think I may be pregnant.

By anonymous on 09/08/2011
Last September I had an abortion at 9 weeks pregnant. I didn't want it at the time but my boyfriend was so scared of being a dad and I hadn't found the courage to tell my parents. His parents knew and obviously agreed that an abortion was best.
This year I have missed my period and seriously think I may be pregnant! I don't understand how, we've been using condoms and I've been taking the pill on time!!!

I don't think I can put myself through the mental pain of an abortion!

I know I will have to tell my parents EVERYTHING, but trying to tell my boyfriend with be the hardest as last time he was the least supportive person. I don't know whether to tell him that if he can't handle it then we won't be able to be togethor anymore. I'm so confused and nervous, taking a test tomorrow.

Editor's Comment

It will take a lot of courage to face your boyfriend and parents if the test is positive. I hope that you will get some support from your parents after they get over the initial shock. It's important that you think through your options, and if abortion was a difficult option for you last time perhaps you should consider continuing the pregnancy. It sounds as though you have taken contraceptive precautions so hopefully it is a false alarm, although no contraception is 100% safe. If you would like to talk to an advisor for some support help is available.You can call the national helpline 0300 4000 999, log on to Online advisor, or follow the link to find a centre for crisis pregnancy support in your area.

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