My gut instinct is I do not want to abort this baby.
I am 39 have an 18 year old and a 15 year old and haven't found being a parent an easy job at all.
He is 44 has a 12 year old and a 21 year old.
I have a fairly good job and still have career ambitions.
I have a slightly racist family, I am white he is black, I anticipate my family being embarrassed of their being a mixed race baby in the family. That said I'm not too close with my family.
The father would be a good father as in he would support the baby for the entire life. He is a better parent than me to be honest.
I just want some advice, our age,and my children's age and the fact that we probably won't be together as a proper solid family unit concern me, but my gut instinct is I do not want to abort this baby.