I'm 12 weeks pregnant, married and by another man.

I'm 12 weeks pregnant, married and by another man. Long story short my husband has had multiple affairs and I ended up doing so also. I don't know what to do I'm so sick and have been sick for the whole 12 weeks.
Already have two children. I wanted to work things out with my husband before the other man got crazy on me. I love my husband! Please help! My husband wants nothing to do with this baby.. keep it or abort?

Editor's Comment

It would be good to have some pregnancy counselling so that you can think through your options and be sure of the decision you make. Having an abortion may not necessarily save your marriage, so you need to think through how you would feel if you have an abortion and then you and your husband split up. You don't say how the other man has reacted and whether that relationship has finished, but is this something you need to talk through with him as well? You can get counselling help and support either Online, by phone or face to face if there is a pregnancy centre in your area. You can call the national helpline, log on to Online advisor, or follow the link to find a centre for post abortion support in your area.

This story was sent in on 17/01/2014

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