I ending up having sex with an ex boyfriend.

I don`t know what to do, I'm a mess... me and my partner had been trying for a baby for a long period of time with no luck... in the month I finally fell pregnant, I had a huge fight with my partner, and I ending up having sex with an ex boyfriend.
It was just once and we used a condom, I don't know if it broke or anything, but now I have this huge doubt in my mind if my current partner is the father, or if it is my ex... I mean, after so many months of trying with no luck, and in the month that I just happen to make the stupid mistake of falling in to my ex´s arms I get pregnant... What are the odds that the ex could be the father? I am currently 5 and a half months pregnant.

Editor's Comment

No one will be able to say for sure unless you have DNA testing, but if you used a condom the whole time with your ex boyfriend then it is unlikely to be his baby, and more likely to be the partner's you have had unprotected sex with. In the end you have to decide how important it is for you to be sure. If it is essential, you will have to admit your mistake to your partner, and get a paternity test when the baby arrives.

This story was sent in on 06/11/2014

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