I have been with my partner for 5 years and we have a beautiful 3 year old daughter.
This has come at a difficult time for you when your relationship is not very stable. The option of abortion seems to be difficult for you, and you sound unhappy about the thought of going through this. You mentioned that your partner was anti abortion and I wonder if you felt the same way before this happened. It is really important that you make a decision that you feel comfortable with, and don't regret in the future. Although abortion sometimes appears to be the easier solution it is a difficult experience to go through for some women. You may feel that you are doing the best for your little girl, but she would also benefit from having a brother or sister to grow up with. It may help you and your partner to talk this through with someone objective, and you could look on the web site and see if there is a local centre you could access.You could also ring the national helpline and talk to a trained advisor 0300 4000 999.