My boyfriend left me and I no longer keep in touch with him, which is his loss, my baby will be perfect

Hey, I'm 14 years old and my boyfriend is 19. Well, it was 8 weeks when I found out I was pregnant with my baby girl and still am. I am now 7 months. 

When I found out I was pregnant I cried and told my boyfriend and he said we could do it together. Of course, I trusted him but when it came to the time of telling our parents, well, I was scared. His parents reacted very mellow to the fact that he was going to be a father. 

On the other hand, my mom and grandma blew up in his and my faces and they told me that I was to abort the baby but I said no.

They got over it and they accepted the fact that I was pregnant and keeping the baby. However, my boyfriend left me and calling me various things and said: "I don't know who the baby's daddy is". This was when I was 4 months along however I no longer keep in touch with him which is his loss and my baby will be perfect...

Editor's comment

You are very brave at 14 to be having your baby and becoming a mum. I hope that your mum and grandma will be able to give you the support you need. If you need more support please do have a look for your nearest centre for pregnancy support.

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