She randomly texts me "I'm pregnant, I hate you"
We finally met on the 3rd of February, we chilled together, had lunch, did some recreational activities and eventually had sex. Biggest mistake; I didn't use a condom, she didn't ask for a condom and she was on her period (...brbrbrbb I know) but we did it...Immediately after sex, I came back to my senses after cumming inside of her.
I asked her to come with me to get morning after pills, she's a student in some medical field, she started telling me about the possibilities of not being pregnant using all these medical terms (I believed, it made sense) I proceeded checking up on her a few days after through BBM, she assured me she's fine. We eventually broke up, as I fixed things with my ex. Weeks go by, I see she's over me and found a new boyfriend (I'm happy for her)
We never really chat anymore - even thou we have each other on BBM. After 14 weeks after our meeting and not actively chatting, she randomly texts me "I'm pregnant, I hate you" and she deletes me from her BBM and blocks me. I quickly proceed to facebook and ask her "what?" She tells me she's pregnant, she sends me pictures of "her" belly (its grown), she sends sonar scans...I'm shocked...devastated...she re-invites me on BBM...her statuses after 14 weeks are now all about pregnancy, she has craving statuses etc.
I ask her to do a paternity test, she refuses to see me, meet up with me and do a "stupid" paternity test.
I manage to chat to her to do an abortion, because as I had told her before, I am not ready for a baby, I can't afford a baby (financial constraints) and I'm only 20, she's 19.
She tells me "You won't have to be in our life, we don't need you! I hate" and such comments. She finally agrees to do an abortion which costs (R4000) I get a personal loan (high interest rate) I get the money. Now she doesn't want to do the abortion because "I'm in love with the baby, I can't do it anymore" and "I won't tell my parents about you! Yore dead to me" and then changes to "I'm giving it up for abortion then"
Am I wrong for not wanting a baby? She's 14 weeks pregnant and she claims she didn't know she was pregnant all the time...I asked her why she was quiet about it...